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Wienergal
09-06-2000, 03:02 PM
Please forgive me, everyone--more rescue blather is issuing forth!

The question is to those of you who have been doing rescue for a while. I did my first transport today, but there was a glitch: The family that had been keeping Kramer, the pup being taken to Michigan, had to have him picked up last night, not this morning. So I had 12 hours of fostering. I sent my two over to Aunt Nadine's, picked up Kramer, brought him home, and was totally in love inside of about 15 minutes.<IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm38.gif" border=0> I swear--I was ready to call the DRNA rep and tell her that Kramer had...uhhhh.... gotten...ummmmm...LOST! Yeah, that's the ticket! He was LOST! And then I would just keep him.

Kramer is a three-month old dachsie mix. He has VERY long legs, a dachsie head and tail, and kind of pale German shepherd coloring, complete with black saddle. I'm telling you, this was the sweetest little pup I've encountered in a long time! He followed me everywhere, lay on my feet when I stood at the sink, lay down next to the tub when I took a shower, and, of course, ended up sleeping with me...with his little head on my neck!!!

The family told me he was not very well housebroken and would just squat and let go all of a sudden, so I should be prepared. HA! He didn't have a single accident, and that's pretty amazing, considering that I had to walk him on Chicago streets and he had never had a leash on before that moment!

When I had to hand him over to the Dachshund Underground Railroad rep in Kalamazoo today, I could hardly stand to let go of him! <IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm14.gif" border=0> Lots of big old tears, because the last sight I had was Kramer standing on Tom's passenger seat, barking to me at the window!! http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/crying.gif http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/crying.gif

I don't know how you foster folks do it. You have to keep them for weeks--I had Kramer for 12 hours, plus drive time, and I still get all choked up whenever I think about him.

Is this normal????

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Dolly's Mom
09-06-2000, 07:03 PM
'Fraid so! Very normal. I just wrote to Alda who took Sunny and begged her for a report on "MY BOY". Wow! Kramer sounds like a DOLL!!!! http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/bounce.gif

Sandi

Roxane
09-06-2000, 07:46 PM
Hi Pamela:
It's only normal to caring people. The rest think rescuers are nuts. If you didn't care so much, you wouldn't be involved. If you didn't care so much it wouldn't have been that hard to let him go. So, thank you for caring that much. I wish there were a thousand more like you.
Roxane

Wienergal
09-06-2000, 08:00 PM
I just heard from Eileen, the DRNA rep who handled Kramer's adoption. I had sent her an e-mail when I got home, asking her to reassure me that Kramer's new family was worthy of him!!!! (Well, not in THOSE words!) He is not your typical dachshund at all, AND he has a milky eye--a congenital defect, so I was a little worried that they might reject him.

She reported that Kramer now lives with a family of four--mom, dad, 14-year-old daughter, 10-year-old son, and that they all went completely nuts over Kramer when he arrived! The kids were playing on the floor with him, and the little guy was happy as a clam! I'm so relieved! He's a real playful little guy, and it's great that he'll have kids AND a yard!

This rescue stuff is pretty good, after all!

Owen's Mom
09-07-2000, 10:05 AM
Pamela,

If you didn't blather... You wouldn't be a true Dachsie addict!! It's the least I expect from anyone on this board <IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm1.gif" border=0> So... keep filling us in on your fosters and keep blathering away!!

~~Amy & Owenhttp://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/facelick.gif~~

Heather
09-07-2000, 12:52 PM
I love to read the rescue blather. Not only is it great for the Dachsie's, but it also gives a bit more reassurance for the generosity of mankind!

I give you so much credit. I was crying just reading your story. I don't know how I would do it.

XO to you from Hans and Bean for saving their 'cousin'!

isobelsmom
09-07-2000, 04:39 PM
If I may be honest . . . That's why I avoid fostering. I always get into trouble (keeping the pupper) or getting my heart broken http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/crying.gif http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/crying.gif(giving the pupper to another hooman). I do transport and occasional pit fostering . . . .love the breed, but it's easier to move them on because my Quincy has his heart in his eyes the whole time and he doesn't like to share his mom with soooo many. And only Dachsie transport. I had to keep a pair here for a couple hours one afternoon until the next leg could get off work. It damn near killed me giving those two boys up.

Nope. Can't do it. Hats off to those who can. I am in awe of you and your ability to have your heart broken all the time. Although it does feel great when the little urchins have a wonderful forever home and you were part of it. <sigh> http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/love.gif

mary

georgette
09-07-2000, 08:27 PM
Wow, how good to know that "babbling"as I call it is a dachsie lover's trait. What a good excuse I have now for not finishing sentences and apologizing for babbling at about 2 doz times a day. Who else is good for starting 18 sentences at the same time?
Seriously, I add my admiration for foster parents. <FONT COLOR="Pink">What very special folks you are.</FONT c><IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm37.gif" border=0>
-Georgette

Nisehart
09-07-2000, 09:11 PM
My first foster boy, Sam, has been adopted and he will be leaving next friday! I do get choked up thinking about that day to come. I have been fostering him almost two and a half months. He will be going to a wonderful home in Ill. The only reason they will be able to pry him from my arms is so I can open my house to another sweetheart in need!

The transport volunteers are great. Sam is being trans. from Fl. to Ill. That's dedication http://dachsie.org/ubb/smilies/angel.gif

pluto'slanie
09-08-2000, 10:57 AM
You rescuers are really angels.<IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm37.gif" border=0> Hats off to you. Pamela I had tears in my eyes when I read your story. The people at work think I'm nuts. <IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm28.gif" border=0> Sitting at the computer and either laughing or crying. Oh, well.

Krista
09-09-2000, 02:00 AM
Rescuers, foster parents and transporters -I just love you all. Each step makes a difference.

Hats off to you all. I know I would fall in love in seconds too if I fostered...maybe transport would be okay.....I hope to join DUR next summer when hubby gets out of the police academy.

sillysadie
09-09-2000, 07:23 AM
I guess that the answer is that you DO fall in love for the period you are fostering. When a newbie comes in my home we treat them as a part of the family. They are smothered with kisses and little hugs as I pass by on my way to another room and they are carried to bed each night just like my other two smothered with smooches. I love them completely and let them understand that they are secure and special. I don't stop loving them as I let them go but rather hold on to special memories of each dog. It is hard to let go of one of my babies but I always get such a special feeling with an adopter is so happy with one of my little ones. So go ahead - foster and fall in love- you will know when it is time to let go.

Wienergal
09-09-2000, 08:08 AM
Such wise words from everyone.<IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm38.gif" border=0> Thanks a million!

I've decided I'm going to take a picture of each dog I have the privilege of helping on its way to its forever home. Do you all do that? What a great album that will be! <IMG SRC="http://dachsie.org/ubb/cwmsmilies/cwm20.gif" border=0>