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maddoxies
07-05-2007, 07:55 PM
My sister and I are cleaning out our mother's home. It is really my childhood home, my older sister was only there for 6 months before she got married. I was there from age 8 to adulthood.

We were cleaning out my dad's workshop area and came across a dusty, square package wrapped in plastic on the back of a shelf. I opened it and my eyes welled up. Lovingly packed away were my budgie's toys and things. Now, Corky has been gone for 25+ years (burried in the flower bed); but his things looked so poignant, packed away with such care. I guess it was the childhood memory that got to me, but my sister was surprised by the emotion it stirred up in me.
And I must say that I was caught by surprise too at how it got to me. we were not a "picture" family, I don't have one photo of him; just my memories of him playing catch with me and his amazing vocabulary.

We have lost a number of fur babies here recently, and I just wanted to share that our beloved little friends may be gone for a long time, but every once in a while, the pain of their loss will surface, even 25+ years later. They are gone, but they never really leave us. :candle:

daionara
07-05-2007, 08:02 PM
What a wonderful thing for him to have done, and it's added another precious memory to your collection as well as something about your Dad you never knew.

gunther's mom
07-06-2007, 12:16 AM
Your post really got me thinking. Of many things... how time passes, how we preserve what we love. And how fast we (I)seem to be running around forgetting what's important. Sounds like your dad tresured the pup. the best to you.

zoeysmom
07-06-2007, 12:53 AM
they all have special places in hour hearts don't they? They touch our lives and are never forgotten.

cunhvn
07-06-2007, 01:19 AM
I think that was a wonderful surprise he left for you. He must have known how much the furbabie ment to you, now you have the things that are real for those memories. I saved some of Cocos' hair and collar and toys and put them in plastic too and in a box, so one day when I have the curage to look at them I will be able to. Thanks for sharing that special moment.