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BTaylor322
09-04-2008, 04:15 PM
We lost our noble, beautiful, huge dark red Rufus just over a week ago. He was only 7, and we'd had him since he was 5 months old. What is even more awful is that it shouldn't have happened.

Rufus has always been one to eat stuff - cloth items mostly, but since we'd switched him to a Rx food for irritable bowels, he'd seemed to have stopped. Earlier this year - like the end of February, though, he'd had stomach surgery - again, as he'd gotten a hold of one of their coats and bits got stuch in his stomach.

He wasn't eating their nesting stuff, and it may be that the bath towel that was his undoing was actually placed there as just more soft thing to nest in. At any rate, on Saturday 8/16, and after he did eat his dinner, he started to act very ill. At around 8, we took him to one of the emergency vet clinics in the area, the one closest to us. I'd also found a pair of cheap reading glasses, and I was VERY concerned that there was a bit in his stomach. Vet on duty took one X-ray (2 views) but did nothing else. You could see something in his stomach, but we didn't know what, and she blew it off to us as "probably just food". We were told to give him a Pepcid and Gas-X, and shown the door. She did give him an injection for some "abdominal discomfort" but that is all.

When by 10 that evening he was looking SO AWFUL that we went back and pleaded w/ them to keep him overnight on observation. By now, he was absolutely NOT going to eat ANYTHING. Not at all like our Rufus. As far as we know, they just stuck him in a cage and left him. When I called the next morning they claimed that he was better. He sure didn't seem so when we picked him up. I should say that there IS another E-vet's in our area, but much farther away, and the last time we'd been there we hadn't been very satisfied, so we didn't try to take him to them. (REALLY bad mistake.) My husband faxed our regular vet to the effect that we were going to be there the 1ST thing Monday morning. I also brought the brief discharge notes and a CD copy of the only X-rays they'd taken.

When our vet saw them, SHE was ALARMED! She operated later that day and found 4 perforations of his small intestine, one perforation in his stomach, and a wildly inflammed pancreas. (One of the towel bits had been leaning on it.) The next day, she said she really wanted to transfer him to the other E-vet - now in a much larger facility w/ a Board Certified Vet in Critical Care.

Poor RUFUS!!! Everyone there LOVED HIM, and they all fought so hard. We visited him every day, but it broke our hearts to see our beautiful noble boy in such a sad state. Fluid kept on building up in his abdomen, and he was operated on a 2d time. The protein levels in his blood were 1/2 what they should be, so they also gave him transfusions of human albumen. He never responded. His liver and pancreas had been so damaged that he just wasn't able to heal.

On the morning of the 25th, we got a call from his attending vet to the effect that he was crashing. She didn't know how long he'd live. If it looked like they'd lose him before we got there (it's a 40 minute trip), did I want them to resusitate him. No, but try giving him oxygen if it would help. We RUSHED over there, and our beloved boy was still with us - only just. We held his beautiful body as they helped in releasing him from all that suffering.

So why do I say it was needless? Because our regular vet showed us the notes that the 1st E-vet had faxed to them. The vet who saw him on Saturday, had made notes to look into the possibility of a foreign body, but she didn't. They have an ultra sound machine but they never took an ultra sound. (Our vet has one, too, and she DID use it.) IF the 1st E-vet HAD done what she should have, he might be alive today. The fragments of towel would have shown up. Also, a barium X-ray would have shown all sorts of alarming stuff, too. They didn't take one.

It's very likely that by Monday, it was already too late. Peretonitis HAD set in,and he was septic. OUR POOR BEAUTUFUL BIG RED BOY!!!! Two E-vets in question are the Veterinary Emeregency & Surgical Hospital (VESH a/k/a the bad guys), and The Emergency and Critical Care Clinic - (EVC - the good guys).

We have already filed a complaint with the state Board of Veterinary Medicine, and there is some some of "looking into" the complaint on the 23d. Sadly, I don't expect much. This is a small state run by "good old boy" networks. We felt we did have to file in any case.

I had to vent, and everywhere I still see Rufus. Thank God, we do still have Simon (our large chocolate dapple boy) and Mason (our small standard silver dapple boy). They're doing the best they can. Rufus and Simon were VERY close, so close that I truly believe that Simon already knew from Rufus that he was so ill.

Barbara

yolanda
09-04-2008, 04:34 PM
Barbara,

My heart is breaking for you and your furkids. I more than most understand you love you have for your furkids. Take care my friend.

Plae Rufus in your heart and smile every time you think about the love you shared.

tgbwc
09-04-2008, 04:37 PM
I am SO sorry to hear about your Rufus, that is just terrible!!!!! The sad part is when we know we are right, and there is little choice for getting good help when we really need it.

I was lucky, our vet was great even during emergency calls, but I've heard horror stories on how some other vets in my area can be.

Please remember you did all you could for your boy. He's in heaven with my Oscar now (he passed away 8-19-08) and they are busy romping and playing.

My heart goes out to you. Hug your other two and remember the good times you had with your boy.

Take care..............

angiers
09-04-2008, 06:33 PM
So sorry :candle:for Rufus

ddpmkrupa
09-04-2008, 06:37 PM
So very sorry.:candle:

Cocoa and Me
09-04-2008, 06:43 PM
Oh gosh your post made me cry. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry the first vet didn't try harder, or try every possible technique. We are here for you. :hug2:

SuziQ
09-04-2008, 06:49 PM
I'm sorry your Rufus had to go through that. I am glad you put in a complaint. Maybe nothing will be done, but if no one complains then nothing for sure will ever be done. :candle:

BTaylor322
09-04-2008, 07:03 PM
Thank you all SO MUCH!!!! We're still in shock, but we're not immobilized. I'd like VESH shut down or at least publicly exposed. We're working on it. It cost us over $15,000 to try to save him. It isn't about the money, though, we'd just like to prevent them from doing more harm.

nonnyd
09-04-2008, 07:15 PM
rip sweet rufus!:candle::candle: this is so sad!:pray::pray:

BTaylor322
09-04-2008, 08:03 PM
OMG, Oscar was the same age as Rufus! He was born June 6, 2001. It's truly awful when they're taken before their time. Oscar would be there to meet Rufus. He died on August 25th. Rufus was a really big boy w/ an ideal weight of 28 pounds - seriously! The funny thing is that his "best bud" was our 1st rescue guy, Buddy Holly, who was just barely 1/2 his size. We'd adopted Buddy Holly at age 14 from CCDR. We had a wonderful 3 years to share with him. Our animal communicator told his that Rufus had "told" her that he'd already met up w/ Buddy Holly, that he knew he was "split" from us but athat was only temporary. He "told" her that he was still connected to us by a "Golden Rope". Knowing that we'll all be reunited eventually does a lot toward keeping me going.

red&black
09-04-2008, 08:09 PM
You most definitely have our sympathies for the loss of your beloved big guy Rufus. You've come to the right place for posting this - we understand what it's like to lose one of our furbabies.

I didn't read too far into your post - it sounded too much like our experience last year with our dear baby girl Pickle. She also didn't survive her obstruction, and passed May 22 2007, at the age of 3.5 years. She had eaten a washcloth.

Some differences in Pickle's case though, was she wasn't very symptomatic and repeated xrays showed nothing (it was finally a barium test that found the obstruction).

:hug: for you and :candle: for Rufus.

Suzanne R
09-04-2008, 08:11 PM
I am SO terribly sorry! I lost a furgirl years ago under very similar circumstances. Please talk to a lawyer - I know money will never replace your beloved Rufus, but something must be done to put this awful vet out of business before more dogs are lost due to horrible incompetence. Please consider this - you might save a lot more dogs. At least try to recover some of your financial losses; and if you file suit, it will be public record and others can access it and see what happened and possibly be warned. I wish I'd done this years ago when I lost my furgirl. Now I know better and would do it in a heartbeat! Please know Rufus is in a place of pure love, where so many of our furkin have gone before us. There really is such a place!

JunMoll
09-04-2008, 08:19 PM
I am very sorry. He was so young. I hope and pray that the special healing will take place in your heart and good memories will take away your sadness as the time pass by.:hug2:

catstamm
09-04-2008, 08:59 PM
Barbara
My heart is breaking for you...what a terrible, frustrating and unfair ordeal you and your boy went through.. I will keep you in my thoughts....I know to well that there are no words...but we are here to comfort you at this time.:hug2:

doximom
09-04-2008, 09:34 PM
:candle: for Rufus & :hug2: to you. I am so Sorry for your loss.

LUVMYGUNNER
09-04-2008, 10:53 PM
You were the best of parents take comfort in that. You tried everything to save him.
Here are rays:rayz::rayz::rayz: for you.

Lin
09-05-2008, 12:09 AM
RIP dear Rufus, Our sympathies are with you at this time of sorrow.

Rufus is at the bridge running and playing with his buddies and just waiting until his time to see you again.

:candle::candle: to help him on his journey

Brenda Toto
09-05-2008, 06:09 AM
God Bless poor little Rufus - may he rest in peace - we lost our precious Rufus last summer - he was 7 also - time does heal the wounds - I think of him a lot and what a good little dog he was - he will always have a special place in my heart as I'm sure your Rufus will also.

LeeAnne
09-05-2008, 09:49 AM
Wow, my heart aches for all of you. To be put through all that and have to also deal with anger and bitterness that it could have been prevented with better care. I do pray that your heart heals and that you are able to find a way to deal with that hospital in a way that brings you satisfaction and helps others to not share the same fate. Thank you for sharing your story. :sorry:

BTaylor322
09-05-2008, 06:54 PM
Oh, I am so sorry for you and Pickle! They COULD have done a barium X-ray, they could have done an ultra sound (it did show up in the ultra sound our regular vet ran) and they've bragged about having an MRI. ANY of those would have shown the darned towel fragments! They didn't. They spent more time making SURE we could pay! Nice! It cost us over $15,000 to try to save him! Yes, we managed - thanks in no small part to CareCredit!

Oh, your poor little girl! Vets SHOULD know that Dachshunds are notorious for being stoic! If they don't then we should make sure they DO know!

BTaylor322
09-05-2008, 06:59 PM
Hi Suzanne,

Thank you SO MUCH! Yes, we ARE going to be talking to a lawyer. I'm actually a retired one myself, but I know better than to try to represent myself in such a case as this!

We've been told that those people are struggling. GOOD!!!! No, it isn't about the money! It's about them never getting a chance to do that to another poor furkid, ever again! They're even trying to doctor his medical records. We are VERY on top of THAT.

I brought Rufus' ashes home today.

Heidi's Pam
09-06-2008, 12:31 PM
Barbara, first of all I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug2: I know that Rufus knew that you loved him and he is now in a place with no pain. We were following Rufus' story here on the DBB as it was unfolding, and were all :pray: for him.
Bless you :angel9: for doing everything you can to ensure that no other families go through such a terrible loss due to tests that were not performed and information that was due to you and not given. I wish you every success and please do keep us posted on your efforts. :goodluck:

SusanF
09-06-2008, 12:49 PM
You loved Rufus and cared about his welfare. He will always be in your heart. Take comfort in knowing he is at peace and painfree!:candle::candle:

Julian&MistyMom
09-06-2008, 05:51 PM
I'm so very sorry. I can't even begin to imagine the pain and enormous grief for the loss of your sweet Rufus.:candle:

Hugs to you and your family.

Louise56
09-06-2008, 06:44 PM
Oh how heart breaking! I lost my 8 y/o Joey last December, received the call in the middle of his surgery!
Oh Gosh I wish I could give you a hug!

gunther's mom
09-07-2008, 02:53 AM
My heart aches for you. I do hope some justice comes out of this. If they are indeed struggling that is no cause for further struggle for those who love their furkids.

Dogmother
09-08-2008, 05:33 PM
I am so sorry for you dreadful loss. What a terrible thing to have happen, especially when you trust the E Vets to properly care for your precious babies and they don't. I am so fortunate to have a wonderful vet that treats my furkids. Just last week she came in at 10 pm on a Sunday night because my husbands aunts dog had gotten into some rat poison. He is doing fine now. Anyhow I digress, I am so sad for you losing your wonderful baby. I really hope that you are able to stop this horrible clinic from harming any other dogs. It shouldn't matter if they are struggling or not. They have taken an oath to do all they can for thier fur patients and it is quite obvious that they are not doing that.

I hope your hearts heal and that the huge hole left by his absence will mend and you can remember the good times with him without tears.

My4dachsies

BTaylor322
09-13-2008, 06:10 PM
Hi Red,

I was looking at pictures that I'd taken of all of them that AFTERNOON! If Rufus was starting to feel awful, it sure didn't show. In fact, he ate his dinner (we feed them between 4 and 4:30). It was AFTER that - like about 3 hours that I KNEW something was going seriously wrong. I'd even given hm a Pepcid! It IS about time that some of these vets LISTEN! Thank God our regular vet isn't at all like that, but she isn't open on weekends. It also makes me SICK that the people whose incompetence led to Rufus' death are ADVERTISING on Animal Planet!!!! IF they'd done even part of what the ad. shows about the equipment they have, Rufies might still be alive! They didn't even do an ultra sound. Our vet did. The towel fragments SHOW UP!